Edging Toys
Edging Toys in Femdom Handjobs: Tools for Pleasure and Control
Edging, the practice of bringing someone close to orgasm but denying the climax, is a favored technique in Femdom for both extending pleasure and exerting control. Here's a guide on various toys specifically designed or well-suited for edging:
Automatic Strokers:
Fleshlight Launch or Equivalent: These devices automate the stroking motion of a Fleshlight, allowing for hands-free play where the Mistress can control the speed, intensity, and even sync it with media for interactive experiences. The automation ensures precision in bringing the sub to the edge without the physical fatigue of manual stimulation.
Vibrators:
Wand Massagers: Powerful vibrators like the Magic Wand can be used for indirect stimulation over the penis or directly on sensitive areas. They can be employed to bring the sub to the brink quickly or to keep him there with varied intensity settings.
Cock Rings with Vibrators: These provide continuous low-level stimulation, perfect for maintaining an erection and keeping the sub on the edge. Some models come with remote controls, giving the Mistress precise control over when to increase or decrease the stimulation.
Pulse Plates:
Devices like the Pulse: These use oscillating plates to stimulate the penis without the need for an erection, which can be particularly useful for edging sessions where the sub might be kept in a state of arousal but not allowed to become fully erect.
Tease and Denial Rings:
Penis Teasers: Specifically designed for edging, these devices might include elements that stimulate the glans or the frenulum, areas highly sensitive to touch, without allowing for full masturbation or penetration.
Remote Control Toys:
Lovense Max or Similar: These not only provide automated masturbation but also can be controlled remotely via an app, allowing the Mistress to edge the sub from a distance or to surprise him with sudden changes in stimulation.
Sensation Play Toys:
Electrostimulation Devices: While not traditional edging toys, devices like the Eros Tek or TENS units can be used to send electrical pulses through the penis, which can be adjusted to bring the sub close to orgasm without crossing the threshold.
Manual Edging Aids:
Strokers: Like the Tenga or similar products, these can be used manually by the Mistress to control the speed and pressure of strokes. Some come with unique textures that add to the edging experience.
Penis Sleeves: Can be worn by the Mistress on her hand to add different sensations during manual stimulation, allowing for a variety of textures and pressures.
Usage Tips:
Control: The beauty of edging toys lies in their ability to give the Mistress control over when and how the sub experiences pleasure, thus building anticipation and frustration.
Variation: Use different toys or settings to keep the experience unpredictable, which can be mentally stimulating for the sub.
Communication: Always keep lines of communication open. The sub should feel safe to express when they're approaching the edge, especially if not using a safe word system for this specific activity.
Safety: Monitor the sub's physical and emotional state. Edging, especially with toys, can be intense. Ensure regular breaks if needed and respect limits.
Aftercare: After an edging session, particularly an intense one, aftercare is vital. This might involve soothing physical touch, hydration, and emotional support to bring the sub back from a heightened state of arousal.
Edging toys are not just about delaying orgasm but about exploring the depth of control, the psychology of pleasure, and the art of prolonging ecstasy. These tools in the hands of a skilled Mistress can lead to some of the most intense and memorable BDSM experiences, focusing on the journey rather than just the destination.